Relationship/marriage and love

Relationship/marriage and love

 

In my opinion, don’t do a relationship/marriage with the person you love.

 

Relationships/marriage and love are two different things. We have joined them and made them one. People say you should have a relationship/marriage with the person you love. Or If you have a relationship/marriage with someone you would fall in love with him/her. All these are incorrect understandings, we should keep Love and relationship/marriage separate as both are separate.

 

If you love someone, tell them how you feel. Take care of him/her, be there for him/her. Do whatever you want, but don’t have a relationship/Marriage/sex with him/her. His/her boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife should know that you love him/her and they should not have any issues with that. The same is true, if your boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife is loved by someone you should not have an issue with that.

 

You may argue that it is friendship rather than love. I would say that love and friendship are not the same, when you develop feelings of love for someone you know that, and at that time you will not remain friends, you will become lovers. But when you become lovers you don’t have a relationship/marriage/sex with that person.

 

For relationship/marriage/sex you find a partner that suits you both, and both of you don’t love each other.

 

You could love 10 or 100 or 100,100 people but you cannot have a relationship/marriage with all of them. So, keep Relationship/marriage separate from love.

 

A relationship/marriage is an agreement between two people and anyone can end the agreement at any time. Starting or finishing a relationship/marriage is in your control, whereas you cannot control falling in love, you fall in love and it is not in your control. If you fall in love with a person you cannot remove that love from your heart whatever you do, that love will remain in your heart till the end of time.

 

You can have a relationship/marriage one at a time, and you cannot have more than one relationship/marriage at a time. You can fall in love with multiple people at the same time, so both are different things and should not be joined.

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