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GOD communication with humans

GOD(Allah) selected people from humans and communicated with them so they could convey GOD’s message to humans. In my opinion, GOD still communicates with selected people to convey his message to humans. If someone thinks that GOD has stopped communicating with selected people to convey his message to humans they are mistaken. Why would GOD stop communicating with selected people? If someone says that GOD doesn’t exist or GOD hasn’t communicated with any human or GOD can't communicate with humans it is their belief. I have my belief and they have their belief.

Feeling others

 Do you feel happy if you see someone else happy and do you should feel sad if you see someone else sad?   You should feel happy if you see someone else happy and you should feel sad if you see someone else sad. Even if you kill someone and you feel his/her pain it is good, because actions do not matter your feelings matter.    

Washroom

 Washroom   Yesterday, I went to Saddar for work. After finishing my work I wanted to go to the washroom, but there was no public toilet nearby. So I went to a shopping mall to use the washroom. While in the mall I was going towards the washroom a guy came forward and asked me to try a perfume. I did not wait to try the perfume instead I went towards the washroom. In the washroom, I thought that the guy might feel that I treated him badly but instead, he did not know that I just came to use the washroom, not for shopping. So when I was leaving the mall I went towards him and told him that I just came here to use the washroom.   The point is, if possible we should share our thoughts with others so they know our thinking and reasoning.  

Sandwiches

  Sandwiches   Today I went to a friend’s father's funeral. After the service snacks and tea were served. Stew(Haleem), Sandwiches, Cakes, and Pastries were in the snacks. I took a bowl of Stew(Haleem) served in disposable small containers in a single-person serving. I liked the Stew(Haleem) and thought that when I was leaving I would take one with me. While I was having snacks by chance I saw a person sneakily putting a sandwich in his pocket, like he doesn’t want others to see that he put a sandwich in his pocket.   In my opinion, if you are at a gathering and you want to take something with you then you should ask the host whether you can take something home, almost everyone would say yes. If you don’t want to ask the host for any reason you should take it without hiding from other guests or hosts. Taking it sneakily is not good for you. When you do this you think you are doing something wrong and you feel guilty. Feeling guilty is not good for yourself, because i...

Child's responsibility

 Child's responsibility   In my opinion, a child is not the responsibility of his parents. If a parent or parents feel that the child is a burden they should leave the child in an orphanage or anywhere. If you want to raise your children because you love them only then you should raise them, otherwise, leave them in an orphanage or anywhere.   No one can take responsibility for anyone because he/she doesn’t know when they will die. 

Sunrise and Sunset

 Sunrise and Sunset   When was the last time you watched a sunrise or sunset?     Sunrise and sunset are beautiful. We should take 5-10 minutes of our time and watch the beautiful sunrise or sunset. There is a feeling at that time that you can feel if you take time out to feel it. You don’t have to go anywhere just watch it from your window or rooftop, if you live in a very congested locality even then you can look at the sky and you can feel it. 

Bureaucratic Form of Governance Proposal

 Following is the letter I wrote to than chief of the Army staff of Pakistan  General Ashfaq Pevez Kayani  o n  06 June 2011. In this letter, I suggested a  Bureaucratic Form of Governance Proposal for Pakistan. Dear  General Ashfaq Pevez Kayani   ,                                                               Dated:  06 June 2011   I am Shahzad Haider. I have a proposal, by implementing this proposal we can take Pakistan to a prosperous future.  Our current form of governance is democratic, we need to change it. My proposal is to change our current form of governance to a new form of governance, which I would call Bureaucratic Form ...

Suicide

 Suicide   Why someone would commit suicide? Someone would commit suicide if he/she is sick of his/her life.   Now the question is, why someone would be sick of his/her life? Normally he/she is living a miserable life.   The thing is, who made his/her life miserable? God(Allah) made his/her life miserable.   The question is, who is responsible for their death? God(Allah) is responsible for their death.     Disclaimer: This is my opinion, and anyone can differ from it but no one can change my opinion.

Social Systems

 Social Systems There are two social systems to live life. I. Give and take II. Giving Currently, we are living in a society of give and take.  Following are some examples of give and take system; 1) We give rice and take wheat. 2) We give apples and take bananas. 3) We give our services/work and take wages. 4) We give money and take electricity/gas/water/grocery. 5) We give a favor and take another favor. In the only giving system, we just give. Following are some examples of giving system; 1) We give rice. We give wheat. 2) We give apples. We give bananas. 3) We give our services/work. We give wages. 4) We give money. We give electricity/gas/water/grocery.  5) We give a favor. We give favor. In giving system, everyone gets what they want as well.

Fight Back

  When someone attacks you, you have two options either to fight back or not fight. 99% of the people think that not fighting is not an option. Wise people know when to fight back and when to not fight.

Fasting on eid day

   ان دونوں میں سے برا کون سا ہے؟  ١۔ عید کے دن روزہ رکھنا  ٢۔ ایک روزہ کھانے   عید کے دن روزہ رکھنا حرام ہے۔ ایک دن روزہ نہیں رکھنا گناہ ہے۔ اگر شک ہو کہ چاند نظر آیا ہے کے نہیں تو عید منانی چاہیے روزہ نہیں رکھنا چاہیے۔ اگر حکومت کہتی ہے کے عید نہیں ہے تو تب ہمیں خود تو روزہ نہیں رکھنا چاہیے۔ عید بیشک سب کے ساتھ اگلے دن منایں۔     Which of the two is worse? 1. Fasting on the day of Eid 2. Not Fasting for One day It is forbidden to fast on the day of Eid, it is a sin not to fast for one day. If there is a doubt whether the moon has been sighted or not, then Eid should be celebrated instead of fasting for that day. If the government says that there is no Eid, then we should not fast ourselves. We may celebrate Eid the next day with everyone.      
 میرے والد کا فرقہ صوفیہ نودبخشیہ تھا۔ میرے والد صاحب نے شیخ سکندر حسسین کے خلاف کورٹ میں کیس کیا تھا کہ سیرت معصومین کے نام سے جو کتاب شیخ سکندر نے لکھی ہے وہ غلط ہے۔  میرے والد کا کہنا تھا کے سیرت معصومین شیعہ مسلک کی کتاب چوداں ستارے کی ہو با ہو نقل ہے۔ انھیں شیخ سکندر اور شیعہ مسلک سے کوئی لینا دینا نہیں ہے لیکن  وہ صوفیہ نوربخشیہ میں شیعہ عقائد ڈالنے کی کوشش کر رہے ہیں اس لیے انھیں شیخ سکندر پر کیس کرنا پڑا۔  شیخ سکندر شیعہ ایجنٹ ہے، اگر شیخ سکندر صوفیہ نوربخشیہ مسلک چھوڑ کر شیعہ ہو جاۓ اور سیرت معصومین نکالے تو انھیں کوئی اعتراض نہیں ہے۔ لیکن اگر وہ صوفیہ نوربخشیہ عالم بن کر سیرت معصومین نکلتا ہے تو یہ نوربخشی کتاب مانی جاتی ہے اس لیے انھیں اسے روکنا ہو گا۔ آج کل شیخ سکندر سے صلح کی بات چل رہی ہے اگر تمام نوربخشی شیخ سکندر سے صلح کر لیں تب بھی میں اس سے صلح نہیں کروں گا۔ میرا اتنا ایمان تو نہیں ہے کہ میں اپنے والد کی ترحاں میں ہاتھ سے غلط کو روکوں لیکن اتنا تو ہے کے زبان سے اس کو غلط کہوں ۔ آخر مرنے کے بعد میں نے اپنے والد کو اپنا منہ تو دیکھانا ہے۔ میں یہ وضاح...

Mutah Marriage

Mutah Marriage   Mutah marriage according to Fiqh Al Ahwat, Chapter Nikah (marriage)   “Mutah Marriage is a well-known, valid, perfect, and correct temporary marriage of Islam, which is performed without a witness in exchange for the present dowry. In the time of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), no one is against it. In this condition, the Holy Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) passed away from this world. And the Holy Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) did not make any change in the marriage contract. The change in Mutah Marriage took place after the death of the Messenger of Allah (PBUH). The person who says that the change in Mutah Marriage was due to the consensus of the Ummah, then this is his biggest mistake because many elders of the Islamic Ummah have provided proof of the contract of Mutah. The consensus of the Ummah in the true sense is that which is completely devoid of any opposition. When a person ...

sex categories table

   Following is the sex categories table;   1) Rape i.e. one person forces him/her onto other   2) With both people's mutual consent a.        Marriage b.        Without Marriage                                                                i.       Relationship                                                    ...

Elon Musk worth

 Elon Musk’s net worth is 195 Billion USD.  1) If he asks you to tell him how much money you want from him as a gift, and the money he would give would reduce his net worth, what would be your reply? 2) If he asks you to tell him how much money you want from him as a gift, and the money he would give would not reduce his net worth, what would be your reply? 3) If he asks you to tell him how much money you want from him as a gift, and the money he would give would increase his net worth, what would be your reply?  

Earth Bursts open

 Have you ever felt like the earth bursts open and you go to the core of the earth, if yes, when? Or Have you ever felt like you fly in the sky and into the infinity, if yes, when?

Idea: Low pitch songs

 Idea: Low pitch songs   There are very limited low-pitch songs, if people work on this niche they are more likely to be successful since this area is not explored much. Also, if you look closely low-pitch sounds can give you shivers down the spine. The area is quite addictive as well. The area is not explored much so there is much to explore and create.

Changing habbit is difficult

 Today I went to buy milk at the shop a bagger woman came and begged for milk the shopkeeper refused it so I bought half liter milk for her. I went to the fruit handcart and there a beggar girl of 5 years old came and begged for an apple, the fruit seller refused it so I told the seller to give an apple to her and I would pay the price. He gave an apple to her but did not take money for that apple from me.   My dilemma is that I want to do bad deeds, but I have developed the habbit of doing good deeds. Now I want to change my habbit but it is very difficult to change it at this age.